Friday, March 16, 2007

March 16, 2007

This coming Sunday, two days from now, will be two months since we picked up our sons from the orphanage in Volgograd Russia (1/18/07). At that time, Nicholas was 14 months old and Benjamin was 15.5 months old. They are now approximately 16 months and 17.5 months old, respectively. It is amazing at how much they have changed in just two months.

Here is Ben on our first visit to Volgograd in November of 2006. He was 13.5 months old in this picture.

And here is a picture of Nick during our first visit to Volgograd in November of 2006. He was 12 months old in this picture.

Here they are in the hotel room in Volgograd on 1/18/2007. This is the day we really became a family, although we legally became a family the day before in court.

In this picture, Ben was 15.5 months old and Nick was 14 months old.

Here is a picture of Ben today, almost two months later. This is the best picture I could get of him today but, I'm telling you, this kid has one of the most charming smiles you will ever see. Everyone comments on it, in addition to his big, beautiful, brown eyes. He has a beautiful smile and he is a beautiful child.

Two months ago, he would hardly play with a toy and would be more likely to throw it down or drop it quickly if you handed him something. He immediately pushed any food that was placed on his highchair tray to the floor and could not feed himself at all. In fact, he never, ever brought anything to his mouth to chew on, except for his finger sometimes. Anytime he was frustrated or angry about something, he would hit himself and sometimes he would try to hit us. He could crawl but he could not walk. He could pull up but was not very good at cruising and didn't show much interest in it. When he did pull up, he did not stand for very long. He did not babble a whole lot and could not say any words.

He can now feed himself finger food very well and he also chews on toys. He hardly ever throws anything in the floor when he is eating in his highchair and he never hits anyone anymore, including himself. He is now walking pretty well and spends a good part of his waking hours walking all around the house. He has become more assertive and he no longer lets Nick take away his toys. He now babbles all the time and he says momma, dada, kitty, all done and he tries to say many other words. He is still behind with his communication but catching up quickly.

And here is an up to date picture of Nick. He has an adorable smile too...maybe a bit impish...he is a little imp. He is also a beautiful you think I might be just a bit biased?

Two months ago, Nick was pretty much on track developmentally and was actually ahead in some areas. He is still pretty much on track developmentally but also behind with his receptive communication skills. His latest interest is talking on the phone. He was holding a block to his ear the other day and saying something that sounded much like "hello". When the phone rings he also says something that sounds much like "hello". If I am busy and don't answer the phone, they both look at me expectantly, like I should be answering it. They both love to listen as someone talks to them over the phone, especially when daddy calls. Nick is also now starting to run a little bit and loves climbing all over the furniture. He can say quite a few words and tries to say many more that are hard to recognize. He understands so much more of what we say as each week goes by, it is amazing. He knows where we keep the drinks and snacks and will point to the fridge or cabinet when he wants something.

They are both pretty smart little guys and we are enjoying this time of learning about their developing personalities. I was looking at some of the old pictures and it is amazing at how much they have filled out since they have been home. Their faces were so much thinner in the earlier pictures and I can really tell a difference in their little thighs. They have a bit of meat there now, almost a little bit of a chub....much more normal looking. Two months ago they were skin and bone.

They are interacting with each more and more each day and it is obvious they enjoy being with each other. They follow each other around and mimic each other a lot.

Sometimes they are pretty good about sharing and they enjoy playing together or near each other.

...sometimes not:). Actually, times like this are pretty rare, for now anyway. This type of behavior is more likely to happen when they are playing very close to each other and they accidentally fall into or onto each other and/or they are wanting to play with the same toy. They normally stop before I have to intervene but sometimes I have to firmly tell them to stop. Nick tends to enjoy sitting on or rolling on top of Ben and Ben doesn't care for that too much.

They both love pushing everything around, including cups that are turned upside down or anything that is not suppose to be pushed and may ruin the wood floors. We try to keep them interested in pushing around the things that are made to be pushed around.

 They both know how to "give mommy a kiss" and also "give mommy a hug" now and it simply warms my heart. They think it is so funny. They are so sweet and cute and hugable!

We are so very very blessed. I believe these two little guys are both miracles and blessings from God. That they have done so very well with this major transition in their short lives is just a miracle. I thank God for them and for how well they are adjusting to us and also us to them.


Tonya said...

Wow!!! They look GREAT! Isn't it amazing how much changing they do in a loving environment??? Great pictures!

Barb said...

Lea - Your boys are adorable! So glad they are doing well. My husband and I adopted our daughter from Volgograd in Feb. 2006 (she was 13 mos. at the time), and we also used CWA. I just had to post a comment when I saw the pic of baby N from your first trip in November - in the blue quilted jacket with double-breasted front, pink buttons, and little deer embroidered on the front - as it looked so familiar to me. We have pics from our Trip 2 of our daughter in the same exact jacket! It's so neat how the little clothes make their way around the orphanage - makes you wonder how many babies get use out of them!

As for naps, we kept our daughter on her 2 naps/day schedule from the baby home for about our first 3 months home, then we transitioned to 1 afternoon nap (usually 2 hours), which she still takes at 26 months.


kate said...

I can't believe it's been two months already. The boys are thriving!

Suzanne said...

My goodness they have filled out! YEAH!

Rob and Michelle said...

Hi Lea,
Sorry I haven't commented in a while but I've been following your story. The boys look so wonderful and I am so happy for you all! Our little one is home and doing well! Your detailed entries help me so much in working with him!
Smiles and Prayers,

MMrussianadoption said...

they are gorgeous! I have the same activity chair.